Forgive and forget

Why i want to say forgive and forget
Both also play an important role in LOVE
When someone do thing wrong
We will listen to the excuse and calm self down
Then we will forgive
Even sometime we think not to forgive someone
But also because of love
Love really can make people lost
Even love is sweet
Even love is happy
But love also make people tired and hurt
So we must learn to forgive
Give each other chance to change
You can't always blame on someone
But at the same time you also must think about yourself
Because problem will never appear by one side
Problem sure come from both
But this is normal for a couple
Because both different individual
Both have different lifestyle
Both have different problem to face
Both have different characteristic
So must must learn to forgive
At the same time also must think the way to solve the problem
Why we must roll the ice cream before serve?
Because we understand the concept
Ice cream will have bigger size from time to time you roll it
So it is also the same to relationship
If you choose to forget after forgive
And never self-reflection
How you think about the problem as time goes by?
Sure it will become big problem when comes to the end
And each time when come to this
Both already feel so tired and no more energy to do anything anymore
Just let it be
So the ending will be breakup
Why can't take out the problem when it is still minor
Discuss it well and think to settle
If really can't solve also will know how to reduce and control
So communication is very important
Instead of quarreling and crying
Why don't take the time to think and self-reflection
Because both also got wrong when there is something wrong
No more blame anyone more
This is children action
We as aldult must be brave for everything
We already no more pampered small kid
But we already grow up
Have own way of thinking
Share to each other
Will make both grow up at the same time
And will make both have more similar
This is correct way to settle thing
Since more similar from attitude and mindset
Then only the relationship become stable
So please remember to think...self-reflection...and discuss
Don't be shy to speak out anything
Don't scare after speak out will hurt others
This is the way to improve
Not others improve but also self improve
Because if you keep hide all the feeling in your heart and mind
Other will never know what are you thinking and feel
Other only can know by guess
But is got a limit for a person to hold on
How good temper also will explode
Just like volcano
It will blow out when it is time
Once it is blow out
Then it is very critical
And will hard to recover
Even recover also will scar
So at the time we learn to forgive
And must learn to forget whatever had happen
Even we maybe can't totally take out the hurt from our mind and heart
But why don't we try our best to make it?
By this not can make self relief but will make other stay happy
So please enjoy the moment to be gather
Is faith bring us to meet
Is faith who bring us to be couple
So please don't because of self problem and destroy the faith arrange by god
Is not easy to have good faith in your life
How often you will going to meet your Mr or Mrs Right?
Once??or Twice??
Mostly just once
After you miss it
How you cry also no more use because he or she will belong to other
Unless you can empty your heart to wait
Wait the day you can touch her heart again
But you will never know how long you will going to wait
Maybe you have to wait until you are old
Only the faith comes to you again
You may meet lot of people who say love you in your life
But how many of them really do love and care you?
How many of them really are serious to be with you forever?
So we must be careful when look for your spounser
Since you are the one who get hurt at last
Please don't get attract by what you see
Have more opinion from other before make any decision
Because you maybe will get lie from their outstanding appearance,sweet word and other else
So please be careful for everything you wish to have
Maybe the one you left now is not perfect
But how if the next one more worst?
Then only you understand you are so lucky before
Wake up everyone
Open your eye wide
Open your ear wide
See more hear more
Don't scared to waste some time
As long you can get someone good then everything already worth